Why Do We Care ?

The Egyptian Dar Al-Ifta has settled the arugments about Prophet's Muhammad parents's fate. Are they agoing to heaven or hell ? .

The whole idea of asking if someone is a good Muslims or not, if they are going to heaven or not, if they are even a Muslim or not ( based on some of their actions), still puzzle me . And i have noticed that this is mostly something we -Muslims- are concerned about A LOT.

Why do we care if someone is a Muslims or not ? or even if they are faithful or not ?

Why do we keep lableing people and insiste on that ? . Why do we care if the prophet's parents are going to heaven or hell ? And what if they are going to hell is that going to upset us and make our days worse.

I understand people's concern about haram and halal in Islam because we all want to be good Muslims, but where does it say that knwoing the fate of some is good for your belief !!! .

Why can not we rest until knowing that this perosn's actions is bad and that it will take him directly to hell ?

Why do we like to play the role of God ?

And btw, Dar Al-ifta has ruled that they are going to heaven.

Now here is a Saudi  joke :-

Abo Saleh and Abo Rahsed are watching the news in their home town -Buridah- ( one of the most religiously strict city in Saudi Arabia)

Abo Rashed : what are you thinking about , Abo Saleh?

Abo Saleh : I am thinking about the greatness of Islam, that has spread all over the world. Look at those Chinese Muslims .

Abo Rashed: Wallah,You are right.

Abo Saleh: But these people know only a bit about religion, they are more like those foreigners who pray only  . The true Muslims are the Arabs who understand the Quran and the Hadith.

Abo Rashed: Wallah, You are right. 

Abo Saleh: And be careful, not all the Arabs are true Muslims. Look at the Egyptians, the Syrians and the Moroccans, they don't even pray the right prayer. If you really want to see the right Muslims, they are the ones in the Gulf and the Arabian Peninsula. 

Abo Rashed: Wallah, You are right.

Abo Saleh: And not all the Gulf countries by the way. Some of them allow drinking (alcohol) and building churches. The right religion is our religion, the people of Saudi Arabia. 

Abo Rashed: Wallah, You are right .

Abo Saleh: But  people in the Easter Province of Saudi Arabia don't let their woman cover their faces.
And those in the Western Province, also, don't let their woman cover and woman smoke shisha, too.
In the northern parts, women don't cover , they mingle with men and they stay with their male guests.
 In the south, you know they are full of  Bida ( new things added in Islam that were not their at the time of the prophet and most believe they are sins) . The right religion is here in Najd ( the center of the country where the capital from ) and the people of Qaseem ( where the city of Buridah from ) .

Abo Rashed: Wallah, you are right.

Abo Saleh: But in Najd , people do smoke.And listen to music, God forbid. The right religion is here in Burida.

Abo Rashed: Wallah, You are right.

Abo Saleh: But not every ally is the same here, some of them have satellite dishes at their homes and watch bad channels. No ally is like ours, no satellite dishes here .

Abo Rahsed: Wallah, You are right.

Abo Saleh: But we don't see the kids neighbors at the mosque-May God guide them- , and not in the Fajr Prayer. Honestly, there are only me and you Abo Rashed who pray the Fajr prayer all the times.

Abo Rashed: Wallah, You are right.

Abo Saleh: But you don't concentrate in your Fajr prayer these days Abo Rashed !!!!

ابو صالح وابو راشد قاعدين يطالعون الاخبار في بلدتهم بريدة في السعودية

أبو راشد: - وش قاعد تفكر فيه يا بو صالح؟
أبو صالح: - أفكر بهالدين العظيم اللي انتشر من أقصى الأرض اللى أقصاها. ناظر هالمسلمين الصينيين.
- و الله أنك صادق يا أبو صالح.
- بس ترى هذول ما يعرفون من الدين الا القشور. طبايعهم زي الأجانب، بس يصلون. المسلمين الصدق هم العرب اللي يفهمون القرآن و الأحاديث.
- و الله أنك صادق يا أبو صالح.
- و بعد ترى موب كل العرب مسلمين صحيحين. عندك هالشوام و المصاروه و المغاربه و الله حتى ما يصلون صلاة ربي. ان بغيت المسلمين الصدق تراهم أهل الجزيرة و الخليج.
- و الله أنك صادق يا أبو صالح.
- و موب بعد كل الخليج. ترى كل هالدول تسمح بالخمر و بالكنايس، الدين الصدق هو ديننا حنا يا أهل السعودية.
- و الله أنك صادق يا أبو صالح.
- بس عندك بعد أهل الشرقية حريمهم ما يغطون وجيهم، و أهل الغربية حريمهم بعد ما يتغطون و يشيشون، و أهل الشمال حريمهم ما يتغطون عن رجالهم و يجلسون معهم و يضيفوهم. و أهل الجنوب مثلك خابر عندهم بدع واجد. الدين الصدق موجود هنيه عندنا في الوسطى و القصيم.
- و الله أنك صادق يا أبو صالح.
- بس ترى عندك هنا في الوسطى الناس يتتنون (يدخنون) و يسمعون موسيقى و العياذ بالله. الدين الصدق هنيه ببريدة.
- و الله أنك صادق يا أبو صالح.
- بس بعد بريدة موب كل حارة زي الثانية، ترى أكثر أهل بريدة مركبين دشوش و يشوفون القنوات الماجنة. ما فيه مثل حارتنا مافيه و لا دش واحد.
- و الله أنك صادق يا أبو صالح.
- بس الله يهديهم جيراننا موب دايم تشوف عيالهم في المسجد، و لا تشوفهم دايم في صلاة الفجر. الصراحة يا بو راشد ما فيه في الحارة يصلون الفجر دايم في المسجد الا أنا و انت.
- و الله أنك صادق يا أبو صالح.
- بس أشوفك يا بو راشد هالأيام ما تخشع زين في صلاة الفجر

We are all going in the direction of Abo Rashed with more people labeling us like Abo Saleh.