Marriage !!

What's with people and marriage ??

Why do they think it's the best thing in the world ??

 Why do they think that there is no one is miserable like a single lady  ??

Why do they think that by not getting married you are missing a HUGE thing ??

and that's your life is a waste??

I always said that the best thing my family believe in is that there is no force in marriage. So I was left without pressure. Of course, my mother would express her wishes from time to time that my sister and i would marry and have a stable life !!! . And everyone else thinks that, too. As if we are roaming the streets drunk and miserable. A huge hazards on society !!!

Today, i was approached by a colleague who explained with a long introduction that she is sorry and that she knew that this is not the right time for something like what she was about to say - and people if you know it's not the right time, then it's not the right time- (because of my father's death) , but she had to say it anyway because she loves me and she cares for me and blah blah blah . finally she informed me -lucky me- that she has a husband for me :)  who is amazing , nice and good who had a bad life -poor he-because of his father but still nice and wanted to marry but he just , just , just has no job, so what do i think ??

i felt like being the late Princess Diane being told about Prince Charles -with different circumstances of course-

-as if i am going to take days or even minutes to think- i kept cutting her and told her no, i don't want to get married . but she kept pushing and wonder why ? me, the woman who is complete-eyes rolling- and beautiful -that's what she says and i am not advertising my self- as if  i would tell anyone if i have a HUGE reason for not marrying.

oh yea i just remember a Lady who once told me not to say i don't want to marry cuz people will think that you have a boyfriend or a lover !!! - i am officially complaining Google for not adding face expression to blogs-

There is no reason. I am a non-marriageable woman, that's all.

Does everyone have to marry ??

And even if i am a spinster- believe me they still believe that in here- , maybe it's because i want to be single or spinster.who cares ? .

Why do they feel -oh poor she and never he- when someone is not married ?

why do i have to be a mom? does any one ever think that not all of us wants to be mothers ??

seriously i love kids and they are amazing when they laugh but that's it.

And MEN , oh men . don't let me start with this species. I am not lesbian or anything but i have issues with men, huge issues, they would take probably more than the rest of my life to solve them. So why waste my life which is already a waste to solve the issue so i would marry and then discover that marriage is another waste !!!!

They are cute and i love looking at handsome men as long as they are way far away from me.

And a question to men in general and especially  the one i was told about this morning,

why would they want to marry when they have no jobs ?? .

The rules say that they work and we stay at home- oh lots of them still believe that-.

So what are we going to do since you don't have a job ?.

is it because i am a teacher -and they think that teachers are the wealthiest people in here -

so i am the one who is going to be the breadwinner? am i supposed to help him start his dreams with his first business where he will be rich and famous and then he will get another wife and dump me -sorry get carried away remembering all these Egyptians TV series- .

What about my mother and sister ? will i stop helping them for the sake of his killing eyes !!!

And of course he will want to have kids, lots of them.

Didn't the prophet asks to have lots of kids -and we are very picky with what we want from religion- .

And what would he teach his kids ?

that's staying at home if wayyyyyy fun than working and that's all your problem will be solved when you find yourself a 36 spinster teacher who is dying to get married so she wouldn't miss on the blessing married people live in ?

I wouldn't mind marrying a stay at home dad if he would cook, clean and wash the house. Feed the babies, and help them with their home works when they grow up . So all i have to do is just get in the house with a frown face, yelling and wanting to just relax. doing nothing.

of course, not. So get lost and leave me alone.

I don't want to marry.

P.S: i will be more than happy to send you my colleague's number if this post offend you in anyway, especially men : D <<<< that face looks evil.lol. kinda what i feel right now.