I do believe that human beings have all kinds of feelings, bad and good. The difference is how we manage them.
ok have said that, i have to confess that i have been jealous of some relatives. In about two weeks it's the Hajj Holiday, so they are going to travel to London to visit a family member :) very nice, indeed. why am i jealous? cuz i want to travel, too but cann't cuz it costs a lot of money and i don't have it. i am not jealous as to wish for them not to go, NOWAY. And i am not jealous to wish that i would go instead ,no. it's only that i wish i had the money to travel all the time. i truly believe that they deserve it, they have not gone anywhere for a long time and they deserve a break. actually the sweetest lady of them just call us to ask if we need anything from there and i wish her the best of luck and i do mean it wallhi.
Does that make me a bad person? Do you feel the same with things you wish and couldn't get ?
No it doesn't make you a bad person at all. I think we all want the things we can't get
BalasHapusI am on vacation and I don't think I will go anywhere since I am trying to get my life back on track now so don't feel bad ..I will be at home during the eid holidays too :P
Aww sweetie that doesn't make you a bad person. Sometimes thing doesn't come our way :) Next time, inshallah next time will be your turn :)
BalasHapus"human beings have all kinds of feelings, bad and good. The difference is how we manage them. "
BalasHapusso well said!!
actully no ur not a bad person.. u feel that inside n u dont go talking bad about them n saying i wish i go.. its just ur own wish to have that opprotunity..
n u dont always get what u want.. its not easy.. bs have faith..
allah yerzegch ya raab..
that's totally normal I feel this all the time .. as long as it does not affect your feelings toward that person ..
BalasHapusHopeless Poet, i guess that's right we all want things we can not get. yalla i'm waiting for you to come back, lol
BalasHapusC, thanx a lot dear and hopefully all good things will come to us one day :)
nosa, i will always have the faith sweetie, thanx alot for your nice words :)
Errant, no my feelings are the same, i still wish they have a great time and i think that they deserve it, they have been working hard for thier lives, thanx dear :)
Not at all, hun :)
BalasHapusIf we all got what we wanted, we wouldn't know how it feels to be happy and excited :) That's why sometimes we have really crappy moments (like feeling jelous and such. We need to feel bad at times, so we can understand happiness.
Allah yerza8ik kil khair ya rab :)
Immaturely Mature, thanx a lot dear for your wishes and beautiful feelings :)
BalasHapusThere is a big differece between jealousy and envy.
BalasHapuswhat you feeling is our human natural feeling... its the feeling of not having something and you wish to have it.
make it a point that you will work to achive what you wish to have... and inshallah you will earn it :)
I WISH I COULD TRAVEL ALL THE TIME TO!!!!
BalasHapusLOOOL...really you are not a bad person at all! if anything you are adventurous:)
Naseem, thanx for your wishes and inshallah they will come true one day :)
BalasHapusAngie, oh dear . yalla let's quit our lives and go on travel the whole world, lol
I hope your wishes come true and you can travel one day. :)
BalasHapusSusanne, thanx alot for your wishes dear :)
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