Senin, 17 Oktober 2011

Unworthy Of Love



We meet with different kinds of people every day, who have different personalities, characters, agendas and ambitions. some of them would do whatever it takes to make things go their way, including manipulating you into believing something you shouldn't believe especially about yourself and your good traits.

A friend of mine was crying today explaining me how she couldn't believe how many of her friends attended a special occasion of her, she was surprised how many people actually love and respect her and came to celebrate with her .
When i inquire about her surprise, she explained how her husband keep telling her that no one actually love her because she is a private person and doesn't like to mingle so much with his family. He was doing that for over twenty years!!

See how people can manipulate you into believing something this bad about yourself. believing that you are unworthy of love by others would make you weak, hostile and a sad person.

It's not you the problem, it's theirs. But they are smarter and know how to make YOU feel bad.

The same friend told me before about the verbal abuse of her husband. Could this be his way of being sure she wont get a divorce knowing that she is not loved enough !!.

Abuser do that, they wreck your life and make sure you wont get any chance of a better life without them. And they are all around us. They could be members of our family, friends, colleagues.

Let's have faith in ourselves and abilities. Tell people that they are good, show them that they are loved and respected. Who knows, you might be saving one by being kind.




2 komentar:

  1. You should write for some newspaper .seriously .I wish I could write like you.

    BalasHapus
  2. Izdiher,

    thanks a lot my dear for your encouragements :)

    You are an amazing writer, believe me and I always enjoy reading your posts.

    BalasHapus