Kamis, 10 Juni 2010

Another Canadian Women Wants to leave Saudi Arabia


Last month a Canadian Muslim citizen was allowed to leave Saudi Arabia where she was captured for three years because her family disapprove of her boyfriend in Canada. This is another story from The Epoch Times .

Here is the story :-

Montreal Woman, Children Trapped in Saudi Arabia


Just as one Canadian woman who had been stranded in Saudi Arabia was finally able to leave last month, another remains trapped under that country’s male guardianship system—along with her three young children.

For the past five years, Nathalie Morin, 25, has wanted to return to Canada with her children but cannot leave Saudi Arabia without the consent of her common-law husband, Saeed Al Sharahni, who she alleges is abusive.

According to Johanne Derocher, Morin’s mother who lives in Montreal, Al Sharahni beats Morin and for long periods kept her and the children locked in an apartment, isolated from society. The situation has deteriorated for Morin since the family recently moved to Al Sharahni’s mother’s home in Bisha, a city in southwestern Saudi Arabia near Yemen.

Although the children have more freedom now, Derocher says Al Sharahni’s family verbally abuses Morin and often confines her in a small storage room, sometimes for over 30 hours at a time and without food or water, despite temperatures of 40 C in Bisha.

“They’re trying to make her get sick and crazy, so she’s going to be on her knees and she’s going to have to come back to Canada. That’s what they’re trying to do,” says Derocher, adding that the family is illiterate and extremely poor.

“The mother is a widow, so now they’re trying to push my girl out of the country and they’re going to get money for the mother. She thinks she’s going to have a Filipino take care of the children, the house, the food, everything, and the government is going to pay that. So for them it’s a very big stroke of luck.”

Custody issue

Derocher, who speaks to her daughter regularly by telephone, says Al Sharahni will allow Morin to leave without the children but she refuses, fearing they will be further neglected if she’s not there.

However, in a meeting with Canadian consular staff in October 2009, Al Sharahni said he would allow Morin to leave with the children if Canada paid him $300,000.

Derocher says this was a perfect opportunity for Canadian officials to pressure the Saudi government for Morin and the children’s freedom, as it was proof that Al Sharahni only cares about the money, not the children.

But that didn’t happen. Instead, a consular official told Derocher in an email that since Al Sharahni’s demand was legal under Saudi law, “we cannot take sides and will continue to consider the situation of Mrs. Morin and her three children as a private, family matter.”

Foreign Affairs spokesperson Simone MacAndrew said Tuesday that consular officials have advised Morin that she and Al Sharahni must resolve the issue of child custody through appropriate Saudi legal channels before the government can facilitate the children’s return to Canada.
Both Foreign Affairs Minister Lawrence Cannon and Parliamentary Secretary Obhrai have raised this issue with the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia when they visited the country, MacAndrew said.

“Consular officials continue to support Ms. Morin in resolving the situation, but are limited by the laws of Saudi Arabia. With the assistance of Saudi officials, consular officials hope that Ms. Morin and her husband can reach an agreement for the positive resolution of this case,” she said.
The oldest child, Samir, age 8, was born in Canada while Abdullah, 4, and Sarah, 18 months, were born in Saudi. According to the group Nathalie Morin’s Support Committee, Abdullah and Sarah were conceived as a result of rape by Al Sharahni.

Marie Eve Adam is a member of the support committee and also works for Bloc Quebecois MP Francine Lalonde. She says she and Lalonde have been “doing many things” to help Morin and the children return to Canada, including meeting with the Saudi ambassador last month.

In cases of American women trapped under Saudi’s male guardianship system, Adam says agreements were negotiated for them to leave the country without the permission of the male guardian.

“The kids usually stay over there unless there is proof that they are badly treated by the Saudi father—which is the case. We have medical reports that Samir is not well treated, and we are asking the Canadian government to negotiate the same thing with the Saudis.”



Bisha 'worst place'

It was thanks to media attention that Nazi Quazi, a Canadian citizen who was stuck in Saudi Arabia for almost three years because her father disapproved of her boyfriend, was finally allowed to leave in early May.

According to Muslims for Progressive Values, Quazi said she obtained her father’s consent to leave the country after her family decided the media coverage made them appear dishonourable.

Adam says media attention in Morin’s case has also helped. “I mean, it’s not resolved, but it’s always put us a bit forward—the media coverage. It’s the only thing that worked.”

Morin and Al Sharahni met in 2001 in Montreal. Soon after the birth of their first child in 2002, Al Sharahni was deported for being in the country illegally. Morin joined him in Saudi Arabia in 2005, when she was just 20.

“She was very idealistic and she thought she was going to make a family with him and everything, but about three weeks after she arrived there he beat her for the first time—a very bad beating,” says Derocher.

Morin returned to Montreal alone in 2006 for a month, but missed the children so much she returned to Saudi.

With Morin already having attempted suicide once, Derocher says she’s very worried about her. She’s also concerned for the children’s welfare in Bisha, which she says is a hub for drug and munitions trafficking as well as terrorist groups.

“That’s the worst place in Saudi. It’s the very worst place, where the people are very hard. So I am very afraid that my girl and my grandchildren are there.”

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Whether she is telling the truth or not, let the woman leave if she wants to leave. And give her her kids , she is a mother.
We can not continue being a country where women can not leave their husbands because he is a "guardian" on her even with such abusive situation.
What can a woman do when her executioner is the one who should be her protector. ??. Damn kingdom.

8 komentar:

  1. i understand that some people believe that a man should be responsible for his family...and thats true.
    but at the same time everyone should be given free will to make their own choices and have the opertuinity to make good and bad choices. if we are all individually accountable to god...how can a women be judged appropriatly by god when she was never given personal responsibility of her own life? everyones life is sacred...and i couldnt imagine having to be stuck with a man who beat me and i wanted to leave....or i could leave without my child. i couldnt live without my child. its so unfair.
    im sure this happens in numerous countries throughout the world....i just wish it would stop.

    BalasHapus
  2. There's a lot more to this story.
    First how can you say "common-law husband", in Saudi, it is illegal to live as husband and wife without being married .
    This is the mother in law's story, the wife herself was interviewed more than once and refused to leave, stating that she was well.
    There's always 3 sides to every story, her's ,his and the truth.

    BalasHapus
  3. That's so sad. :(
    I think the doctor saying that Samir is not being well treated gives her story more credibility.

    BalasHapus
  4. angie,
    i believe that it's the worst thing to do to a mother is to seperate her from her kids.
    hope that this will end peacfuly and for the sake of the kids.

    BalasHapus
  5. Anonymous,
    you are right in saying "there's always 3 sides of every story, her's, his and the truth" . but how about the officials of the embassy. why would they lie ? is it because she is Canadian ??
    something wrong in their life and for the sake of the kids needed to be fixed.
    and FYI i have read the same story previously in a Saudi newspaper and it was not that different.

    BalasHapus
  6. Aynur,
    i think that she is not lying, but even if that means she doesn't want to be here so she should be allowed to. And NOT without her kids.

    BalasHapus
  7. Wafa, I hope your father is doing much better.

    This is sad and the victims are the children. People can call Nathalie Morin a liar, BUT, the Saudi legal system speaks for itself.
    Young boys have more rights than older women, than their own mothers.

    This is not Islam.

    BalasHapus
  8. Salma,
    thanks for asking, inshallah kheer ya rab .

    actually there is almost no right for women here at all. And i hope that this woman will get her rights soon and to leave -if she wishes - with her kids safely.

    BalasHapus